Holiday in the Park 2009

The pictures say almost everything, though they miss Stirling, age 3, totally melting down and wailing out of fright on stage - he recovered nicely and finished the show without incident - as well as our epic walk with the kids all the way down Magnolia Boulevard.

After the show, one of the parents commented to me that his son "felt like he was part of something" - and I had to smile because I do, too.

Field Trip!

Our field trip to Hsi Lai Temple was a SUCCESS!

Pictures are up on our Facebook and we're working on getting them on the website. We had a group of 53 people. One of the students brought donuts in the morning for the earlybirds. Once at the Temple the kids munched on snacks (provided by yours truly) while we got organized. The kids asked plenty of questions on the tour and were extremely polite. To my immense surprise, the kids loved the vegan buffet. It's amazing what kids will eat if you give them a choice - raw carrots, jicama, tempura, miso soup...

The primary goal of the trip was to educate everyone about Chinese and Buddhist culture. The secondary goal was to help build and promote a sense of community and friendship among our students. Both were more than achieved.

I am now turning my attention to Friday's Demonstration at Holiday in the Park. It's a busy month, but I love it. :)

Some Schools Give Rewards for Nothing...

I frequently pass other martial arts schools by and see trophies stacked five high in the windows. (I suspect that most of these are bought from Trophy Depot merely for effect.) I also often see signs advertising specials such as this:

"$99 Introductory Program - Includes Trophy!"

I am confused. Are we now teaching children that they deserve knee-high, glistening trophies for doing nothing but coming to class as ordered to by their parents? Do parents really see these signs and get excited rather than realizing that a school such as this obviously can't teach the finer points of honor and respect if they give out trophies like candy?

On Monday, we gave one of our students, a ten year-old who has been at our school for two or three months, a coveted award pin. (The students pin their awards to their collars.) Why? Not for excellent ability or memorizing a form, though we sometimes give awards out for that too.

The student received the award because he was not feeling well, but he came to class regardless because he needed to practice for our upcoming demonstration event. He knew that there were other people counting on him, and that the right thing to do was to come to class.

The pins are fairly simple - his depicted the yin and yang - compared to the huge, gaudy trophies that most students at other schools receive... but if I were a parent I'd take a rarely given, well-deserved award over a meaningless showpiece any day.

The Price of Commitment

I'd like to preface this entry by saying that I did not study martial arts as a child.

There are many parents who don't enroll their children in martial arts, for whatever reason. However, there's nary a child who hasn't taken swimming lessons. Every parent seems to know that swimming is an important skill to learn - the obvious consequence being drowning.

I just have to say this: martial arts is like swimming. EVERY CHILD should have to learn martial arts until they have acquired basic self-defense skills!

What are the chances that your child will be caught in the deep end of a pool or in the ocean, with no adults around to save them, and have to swim for their lives? Not great, but not slim, either. Well, what are the chances that your child will be caught in a situation where they'll have to defend themselves, either against a bully or worse, a predator or abductor? Not great, but not slim, either. You can keep an eye on your child around the pool, but can you follow them everywhere they go to keep them from becoming the victim of a kidnapper?

All parents have a responsibility to arm their children with basic verbal and physical self-defense skills.

Okay, I'm off of my soap box.